// remove edit profile link from admin bar and redirect to buddypress profile link
if( !current_user_can('activate_plugins') ) {
function vap_admin_bar_render() {
    global $wp_admin_bar;
    $wp_admin_bar->remove_menu('edit-profile');
}
//add_action( 'wp_before_admin_bar_render', 'vap_admin_bar_render' );
// uncomment above line if you want to hide extra edit-profile menu
function redirect_profile_edit_to_buddypress() {
    if(IS_PROFILE_PAGE === true) {
        wp_redirect(home_url().'/members/me/edit');
    }
}
add_action( 'admin_init', 'redirect_profile_edit_to_buddypress' );
}