type
  PRGB32Array = ^TRGB32Array;
  TRGB32Array = packed array[0..MaxInt div SizeOf(TRGBQuad)-1] of TRGBQuad;

procedure MakeGrey(Bitmap: TBitmap);
var
  w, h: integer;
  y: Integer;
  sl: PRGB32Array;
  x: Integer;
  grey: byte;
begin
  Bitmap.PixelFormat := pf32bit;
  w := Bitmap.Width;
  h := Bitmap.Height;
  for y := 0 to h - 1 do
  begin
    sl := Bitmap.ScanLine[y];
    for x := 0 to w - 1 do
      with sl[x] do
      begin
        grey := (rgbBlue + rgbGreen + rgbRed) div 3;
        rgbBlue := grey;
        rgbGreen := grey;
        rgbRed := grey;
      end;
  end;
end;

// Sample usage:

procedure TForm4.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
var
  bm: TBitmap;
begin
  bm := TBitmap.Create;
  try
    bm.LoadFromFile('C:\gambar\foto.bmp');
    MakeGrey(bm);
    Canvas.Draw(0, 0, bm);
  finally
    bm.Free;
  end;
end;